Kya Karu Ki Ladki Mujhe Like Aur Love Karne Lage?

Kya Karu Ki Ladki Mujhe Like Aur Love Karne
Lage?

Hi Friends, Aaj main apne ek friend ki baat sun
kar kaafi soch me pad gyi, kya karu unki khani
hi kuch aisi thi jise padh kar koi bhi sochne ke
liye majboor ho jayega. Aap bhi is soch me pad
gaye na ki, Are yaar aisi kya baat ho sakti hai
jiske karan riya jaisi smart ladki bhi sochne
ke liye majboor ho gyi To chalo aapko bhi
btati hu ki vo kya baat thi. Apne ek friend hai jo
ek kudi ko bahut pasand karte hai aur dil-o-jaan
se use dil hi dil me mohabbat karte hai par us
ladki ki baate se kuch clear nhi ho pa rha hai ki
uske dil me humare dost ke liye kya hai, suniye

Unki khani unhi ke jubani.

Mam plz meri help kariye….
Main ek ladki ko bahut chahta hu or unse bahut
pyaar bhi krta hu, but mujhe unka nhi pata vo
mujhse karti hai ya nhi ? Humari mulakat tution
class me huyi thi … abhi 7-8 months se baat nhi
ho rahi hai bcoz tution finish ho chuke hai. Ab
hum log roz nhi milte, vo bahut hi jyaada shy
hai or bahut cute bhi…Main unse bahut izzat se
or kaafi respect se baat krta hun, unke naam
ke aage ji laga ke baat karta hun. Ab humari
baaten msgs ya call par hoti hai, but face to
face bahut hi kam. Ek baar face to face baat
huyi thi, to vo itni shaant khadi thi or unki
nazren neechi thi…. Mujhe bhi unse face to
face baat krne me shy feel hota hai….. ab main
aapko bata du ki aaj se 3 saal pahle unka ek bf
tha but kaafi jhagda hone ke baad ab unka
breakup ho gya hai, isiliye ab unko jyadatar
ladke pasand nhi or unka ladko par se vishwaas
uth gya hai, ab vo sirf mujhse hi baat karti hai.
Kyunki main unse kaafi izzat or respect se baat
karta hu or faaltu ki baat kabhi nhi krta. Hum
bus normally baat karte hai jaise ki study,
dharmic etc.
Maine unse apne dil ki baat kabhi nhi ki, ek din
call par himmat karke maine unse bahut hi
jyada ghuma fira ke matlab indirectly kaha tha..
vo samajh gyi thi ki main kya kahna chah rha
hu, fir unhone reply diya ki..
“I don’t know about this and I don’t have that
type of feelings for you… maine aisa kabhi
tumhare bare me socha nhi, aage ka main kuch
kah nhi sakti, or vaise bhi ab main kisi se again
love nhi kar sakti etc”
To ye sun-ne ke baad maine bhi unse fir kuch
nhi kaha. Hum ab bhi baat karte hai, Hum dono
ke beech bhut jyada baaten hoti hai, lekin bahut
hi normal or ek limit ke andar. Us din ke baad
maine unse kabhi apni feelings ke baare me
kuch nhi kaha… Aur main nhi jaanta ki vo mere
bare me kya feel karti hai, vo kya sochti hai ?
Ek to bhut hi jyada shy hai.. to plzz mam mujhe
bataiye ki main aisa kya kru ki vo mujhe like
kare or love bhi. Maine unke liye bhut kuch kiya
hai, mujhe jan-na hai vo mere baare me kya
sochti hai. Main unko bhut, bhut se bhi jyada
bhut chahta hu, ye mere life ka first time hai or
first girl hai. To plzz plzz mam mujhe batayiye
ki Main kya kru? Main aapse haath jodta hu
mam plzzzzzzz meri help kriye mujhe bataiye
main kya kru plzz ……

Riya ki suggestion

Dekho beta ji agar to aap ye jan-na chahte ho
ki uski aapke baare me kya feelings hai, yaani
ki vo aapko sirf apna ek dost hi manti hai ya
kuch aur baat hai to aapko kuch cheezo par
dhyaan dena padega. Kuch cheeze notice karke
aap is baat ka andaza badi aasani se laga
sakte hai ki aap uske liye special ho ya ek
normal friend..
Is baat ko notice karo ki aapse baat karte
huye vo kaisa behave karti hai, uska
behaviour vaisa hi normal rehta hai jaise
uske baaki friends ke saath rehta hai ya
aapke saath hone par vo jyada Self-
Concious ho jaati hai. Agar aisi baat hai to
iska matlab hai vo nervous hai and vo
aapko definitely ek dost se jyada manti hai.
Halanki, agar uska behaviour vaisa hi rehta
hai jaisa normal har waqt rehta hai to bhi
aisa nhi keh sakte ki uske dil me aapke
liye koi feelings nhi hogi, ho sakta hai vo
jaldi ye baat tumhe na btana chahti ho aur
vo aapko parakhna chahti ho, isliye aap
hamesha uske saath sache raho aur
banawti mat bano.
Avoid the Friendzone : Ye point bhut hi
jyada important hai, agar aap use chahte
ho to apni feelings ke baare me Clear raho.
Aap uski respect karte ho ye baat theek
hai lekin yhi vo cheez hai jo ek friend aur
boyfriend ko alag karti hai. Agar aap uske
saamne bahut ache bane rahoge to vo
aapko ek acha friend maan sakti hai
lekin ek acha lover nhi. Aapko thoda flirty
hona padega, thoda daring hona padega.
Agar aap sirf uski respect aur feelings ki
kadar hi karte rahe to vo aapko apne
friendzone me dekhegi jo aap bilkul nhi
chahoge. Isliye aap uske saath flirt karo.
Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap flirt nhi kar
sakte to jyada fikar waali baat nhi hai bas
aapko try karna hai aur aap mehsoos
karoge ye cheez jyada majedar hai, isse vo
tumhe dusre najariye se dekhna shuru
karegi.
Ek bahut badi sachayi ye hai ki, Jyadatar
relationships marriage tak nhi pahuch
paate aur fir hum normal friendship se bhi
dur ho jaate hai, isliye jo bhi karo soch
samajhkar karo and agar aapko lagta hai
aap dono ke relationship ka koi future hai
sirf tab hi aage badho.

Kya Kare Ki Vo Aapko Pasand Aur Pyar
Kare
Apni Look Par Dhyaan Do : Is baat ka khaas
khyal rakho ki jab aap usse milo tab aap best
lag rhe ho, agar abhi tak aapne aisa nhi kiya hai
to ye aapke liye bhut kaam ki cheez sabit ho
sakta hai. Usse milne ke liye jaate time pajame
me chappal pehan kar hi mat nikal jaao, apni
personality achi bana kar jaao, saaf suthre
kapde, ache shoes, good hair cutting and
perfume laga kar jaao, taki milte hi use ek
surprise mile, yakeen maano isse ek dum se
uski feelings aapke liye badal jayengi aur vo
khud aapki taraf aane ko majbur hogi.
Be More Playful : Vo bhut shy hai koi baat nhi
par aap bhi Shy bane rahne ki galti fir mat
karna, aap usse baat karne me darte huye na
dikho kyunki ek ladki sharmate huye achi lagti
hai lekin ek ladka aisa karte huye bilkul bhi
acha nhi lagta aur isse ladki ko ek negative
message jaata hai, aap jab usse milo ya baat
karo to ek dum cheerful dikho. Use ye dikhao ki
aap darte nhi ho. Bina dare uski khubsurti ki
tareef karo, uske saath flirt karo and uske
saath majak karo. Use pata chalna chahyiye ki
aap ek perfect Boyfriend material ho na ki ek
bhut acha dost.
Physical Contact : Ek ladki hone ke naate main
aapko ye baat samjha sakti hu ki ek ladki us
ladke ko jyada pasand karti hai jo himmat wala
ho, jisme apni baat kahne ki himmat ho aur jo
daring ho. Agar aap uske saath baat kar rhe ho
to uski tarah sharmate mat raho balki himmat
karke use touch karo, touch jyada der tak nhi
bas 2-3 seconds ka hona chahiye, use ye pata
chalna chahiye ki aapme himmat hai, ye mat
socho ki use bura lagega. Jab bhi aap log milo,
dur se hi Hi karne ki bajaye – Smile ke saath
uske saath hand shake karo aur jaate waqt
Hug karo, pahli baar me ye cheez muskil lagegi
par ek baar karne ke baad aapka hausla hjaar
guna badh jayega. Vo aapke baare me dusre
angle se sochne ke liye majbur ho jayegi.
Be Useful : Uski help ke liye hamesha taiyar
raho, lekin ek baat ka khyal rahe ki aap uske
naukar ki tarah behave na karo. Jo kaam vo
khud kar sakti hai vo karne ke liye usko
encourage karo and uski tareef karo, ye mat
kaho ki vo kaam aap usse acha kar lete.
Rudeness & Arrogant behaviour kisi bhi
relationship ke acha nhi hota.
Ask Her Out : Usse bahar jaane ke liye pucho,
vo mana kare to naraj hone ki bajaye usse khul
kar baat karo aur use manane ki kosish karo.
Aap uske boyfriend nhi ho par ek boyfriend ki
tarah behave karo. Agar sharmile bane rahe to
uske dil me aapke liye kabhi vo feelings nhi
aayegi, so be cheerful, be funny, flirt with her
and make jokes.
Ye sab vo cheeze hai jisse kisi bhi ladki aapki
taraf attract hogi, agar vo aapki friend hai to
aapko bas apna behaviour change karna hai
and vo aapke baare me sapne dekhne aur
sapne banane shuru kar degi. I really hope this
article will help you to get ur girl in ur life. Best
of Luck ♥
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