Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to Kya Kare

Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to Kya Kare

Hello Friends… Kaise ho? Humare friends ko ek
problem se aksar gujarna padta hai, us problem
ko hum normal language me kahte hai.. One
sided love. Uff…bahut mushkil hai ise handle
karna. But koi baat nahi, hum hai toh kya gum
hai, isko bhi handle kar lenge! Toh aaj hum
apne un friend ki problem ka solution denge,
jinka question hota hai – Main ek Ladki Se Pyar
Karta Hu, par Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to
Kya Kare. Ab kuch situations mein hota kya hai
ki, ladka ek ladki se one sided love karta hai,
aur jab wo use propose karta hai toh woh use
yeh bol ke mana kar deti hai ki -“ Main tumse
Pyar Nahi Karti. ” But ladka use itna pyar karta
hai ki woh use kisi bhi halat me khona nahi
chahta. But ab problem ye hai ki use manaye
bhi to kaise, bole bhi to kya bole. Toh aisi
situation me bas ek hi cheez dimag me aate hai
– Yaar Main Kya Karu ? . Hmmm…baat to sahi
hai ki, Kya kare ab woh .
Toh chalo hum sab mil ke unhe ye batate hai
ki, One sided love ko two sided love mein kaise
convert kare . Hum sab hai na unko batane ke
liye ki Ladki ko kaise manaye, ladki ko apne
pyar mein kaise deewana banaye to fir tension
ki kya baat hai.
Ladki Ko Apna Banane Ke Tarike
Agar aap ladki ek baar propose kar chuke hai or
usne aapko relationship ke liye mana kar diya
hai, toh pehli baat us cheez ko wahi chod do,
uski baat ko dil se lagakar mat baithe raho. Aap
apni friendship yaani Dosti me difference na
lao, warna aap uske paas aane ka aur uske
sath time spend karne ka mauka kho doge jo ki
bilkul bhi acchi baat nahi hogi, aur phir toh aap
use apne pyar mein kabhi nahi dal payenge.
Toh is proposal ko aapko aur usko embarrass
mat karne do. Pahle jaisa comfort level
maintain karke rakho. Dhyan rakho ye cheez
bahut important hai, agar yha aap fail ho jaate
hai to fir bahut muskil ho jayegi.
Aur haan ladki ko manane ke liye, thoda
patience level badhana padega, kyunki ladki
nakhre bahut karti hai. Aapka pura patience level
test karengi ladkiyan . Toh bas phir agar aap is
stage ke liye ready hai, toh ab badhte hai
aage..
⇒ Uski Care Karo
Ladkiyon ko caring ladke bahut pasand hote hai,
so agar aap uski care karte hai toh uske aapki
taraf attract hone ke chances badh jaate hai.
But haan, aapke propose ke baad wo is care ko
galat na samjhe is cheez ka dhyan jarur
rakhna. Uske saath friendly behave karna taki
use lage ki proposal ke baad or specially uske
mana karne ke baad aapki dosti me kuch farak
nahi aaya hai aur aapki friendship waise ki
waise hai. Is cheez se wo aur jyada khush hogi.
⇒ Maturity Show Karo
Ye ek fact hai ki.. Ladkiyon ko mature ladke
bahut pasand hote hai, aise ladke jo apna
decision wisely ( soch-samajh kar ) lete ho. Usko
impress karne ka idea bahut helpful hota hai,
aap situation ko kaise deal karte ho aur us pure
outlook ko kis tarah se perceive karte ho. Use
show karo.. aapko Money, apne Expenditure,
Savings sab ka bahut ache se khayal hai. Aap
sab cheez ko carefully manage kar sakte hai.
Aur aap apne career ko le kar bhi bahut serious
hai. Aap har topic pe rationally or clearly
sochte ho and Aap sab cheez ko equally leke
chalte ho, chahe fir wo kisi topic pe baat ho,
koi bhi conflict ho, disagreement ho to aapki
image mature person ki banegi jo bahut
important hai.
⇒ Uske Likes & Dislikes Jaano
Ladkiyon ko aur jo baat achi lagti hai wo ye hai
ki, jab ladke unke Likes, Dislikes, Interest,
Family and Childhood mein interest lete hai.
Usse uske interest ke baare mein baat karo, wo
aur attract hogi. Ladkiyon ko bahut acha lagta
hai, jab koi unhe sunta hai. Unke baare mein
baat karta hai, aur ab us ladki ke liye aap wo
banoge jisse wo baat kar sakti hai aur apni har
baat ko suna sakti hai.
⇒ Friendship Mein Flirt Ka Tadka
In sab ke sath jab aap uske sath time spend
karte hai toh aap kaafi ache friend ban chuke
honge. Toh ab aap apni friendship mein flirt ka
tadka add kar sakte ho. Aap baaton baaton mein
use filmy romantic dialogue se impress kar
sakte hai. Aur use kaise na kaise show karo ki,
aapke lines mein chahe flirt hai but feelings
orignal hai . But haan use kuch aisa na bolo ki
use bura lage kyunki abhi wo aapki girlfriend
nahi hai. So, dhyan rakhna doston, kahin baat
badhane ki jagah bigad na dena.
⇒ Use Compliment Karo
Ladkiyon ko compliments bahut pasand hote
hai. Koi unhe praise kare, unhe notice kare toh
unhe ye worth lagta hai. Unhe lagta hai ki unka
uske liye special time laga ke ready hona safal
ho gaya hai. Isliye unhe praise kar do, use choti
se choti success pe appreciate karo. Agar
aapko lagta hai, usme koi change hai toh use is
change pe compliment karo, isse use ye pata
chalega ki aap use sach me notice karte ho.
Compliment karne ke liye aapko jyada sochna
nahi, just Be Simple and Clear like – Aapki
Dress Ache Lag Rahi Rahi Hai, Aap Pe Ye Dress
Suit Karti Hai, Yeh Colour Suit Karta Hai, Aapke
Hairs Ache Hai bas aisa kuch.
Compliment karne mein ek baat ka dhyan
rakhna, use simple compliments like Sweet,
Cute, Beautiful aise compliments dein, ladkiyon
ko aise compliments zyada pasand aate hain,
rather than Hot, Sexy, Bold etc..
⇒ Usse Uske Baare Mein Baat Karo
Jab aap ladki ko impress karne ki koshish kar
rahe ho aur jab bhi aap uske sath time spend
karo toh usse baat karo – Uske baare mein,
uski family, uski problems, har cheez ke baare
me aur jo bhi wo bol rahi hai use ache se suno.
Uski baaton ko attention do. Aap usse apni har
baat share kar sakte ho, use lagega ki aap
actual mein uske liye alag ho, jo aap use har
baat share kar sakte ho. Use ye show karo
uske sath spend kiya hua har time aapke liye
special or memorable hai.
⇒ Uske Liye Message Drop Karo
Jab bhi aapki friend offline ho toh uske liye ek
Cute & Loving message zaroor drop karo.
Kyunki jab bhi wo net chalati hai toh wo aapka
message zaroor expect karti hai, aur isse aapka
kaam aur bhi aasan ho jata hai, use ye bhi
lagta hai aap uske baare mein sochte ho aur
aap sach mein use admire karte ho. Aap uski
absence mein bhi uske baare mein sochte hai.
Toh bas ek chota sa message bhi aapka kitna
kaam kar sakta hai.
Toh mere Bindaas Doston, ye hai kuch desi tips
Aapki Pasand Ladki Ko Aapse Pyar Karne Mein
Help Karne Ke Liye. In tips ko ache se follow
karna toh pakka positive results milenge. Aur
haan jaise pehle bataya patience level zaroor
badha ke rakhna, Jaldi mat karna, kyunki ladki
agar pyar bhi karti hui na toh unse confess
karwana aur bhi mushkil hota hai. Chalo pahle
to aap bas use mana lo, phir use confess
karwane mein bhi aapko Shivshi aapki help
karegi.
Note
Doston, kyi baar aisa bhi hota hai ki, Ek ladka
ek ladki se pyar karta hai ya use pasand karta
hai par vo ladki usse pyar nahi karti jiske liye
kuch bhi reason ho sakte hai. Agar vo ladki na
hi us ladke se baat karna pasand karti hai aur
na hi uski koi baat sunna chahti hai to ladke ko
1-2 baar usse baat karne ki kosish karne ke
baad us ladki ke baare me sochna chod dena
chahiye aur use tang nahi karna chahiye. Agar
vo ladki mana kar rhi hai to obvious si baat hai
kuch na kuch reason hoga aur jaruri nahi hai ki
ladke ko bhi vo reason pata chale. Jab ladki ne
strictly aur saaf-saaf mana kar diya to uski baat
samajhni chahiye, bewakoof logon ki tarah
pagalpanti nahi karni chahiye. Isse ladka sirf
apna time barbad karta hai aur ladki ko bhi tang
karta hai .
Kuch cases me, Agar ladki ne mana kar diya to
kar diya, iska simple matlab hai ki vo ladke se
koi pyar nahi karti aur na hi use usme koi
interest hai. Aur aise me uske upar koi formula
kaam nhi karega aur ladka use attract karne ke
liye kuch bhi karega to ladki ko vo cheez aur
torture hi karegi, jisse uski life me bhi problems
aayegi aur uska dimag kharab hoga. So pyar
karo, par dusre ko apne se pyar karne ke liye
majbur karne ki kosish mat karo, kyunki aisa
kabhi hota nahi .